A Women’s Event

 Saturday, May 23, 2009

01:00 PM to 04:00 PM

The LGBT Community Center

208 W. 13th St, New York

Description

Lady Sabrina and Le Cercle des Dommes

Present

An Afternoon of Fellowship and Fun benefitting Master Blair’s Fight for Christopher Fund

A Women’s Event

Master Blair

Founded Le Cercle des Dommes – a support group for Dominant Women. She also helped establish Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) – Metro NYC. She has mentored and presented at TES, Le Cercle des Dommes, Butchmann’s and various events around the country.

Now she needs our help – The court has decided that because of her M/s interests and her involvement in the BDSM community, she is an unfit mother and has taken her son, Christopher, away. Le Cercle des Dommes is hosting an afternoon event as a thank you and a show of support for all Master Blair has done for the community she cares for so well.

__Presenters will include:

Goddess Coko Florentine Flogging

Margaret Davis Traditional OTK Spanking

Doom Maidens Wrestling

Miss Olivia Hart, Drag Queen Extraordinaire will provide entertainment.

Raffles will include a Community membership, toys, t-shirts and more. Refreshments are included with your donation.

This is a pansexual event open to all Women.

Please come out and support someone who has given so much to this community.

Part 1 of a post that probably has nothing to do with post 2,but does have to do with the Service post

My last post got me thinking about a conversation I had with some ladies at the circle. We were discussing some things we wanted to learn and some things we have learned. One sister wanted to learn how to flog with both hands. It may sound real simple, but there is a bit of art to it. so, we started talking about the different ways it can be done. And trying to brain storm when something like this can be taught. In the middle of the conversation someone said, “yeah I was canning this guy and he kept saying your so good at this.” She said she was a bit insulted, and we all could agree.

 

Why?

 

Here’s the thing.

 

It can be looked at this way. A woman is in labor, the doctor instructs her to push, the baby is delivered then, what is called the afterbirth is extracted. That’s it, there’s no manual that comes out, no cliff notes. Just the baby, you’re on your own. You may drag your ass to Barnes and Noble to get a book written by some guy named Dr. Spock, but your best bet if you’re lucky is get with some women who have experience.

 

Back to main point.

 

Learning different skills take time, energy and willingness. You also have to find someone who has the time, energy and willingness to teach you.

This is where my last post comes to into play. It takes a lot of work and sometimes money.

 

Let’s do aVH1 behind the music with the group TLC, the episode when left eye breaks their money down and how at the end they had to file for bankruptcy.

 

First I have to put in the work to find someone I want to learn [add skill here]. That takes time.

 

So I find someone.

 

Then negotiations begins:

 

Am I going to have to pay to learn?

Where will the [add skill here] be taught? They call the shots with this.

I may have to put in some travel time. I can assure any one who wants to learn a skill I’ve never learned anything in a dark ass dungeon.

Which begs the question, will our schedules allow for the training. Again, they call they shots.

 

Some other things to think about.

 

If I have someone not a problem, but if I don’t, do they know someone?

–if I don’t have anyone this cause a problem. If they have someone, are they willing to let me practice on their property?—

–if they don’t have anyone, are they willing to find a person that’s willing? Or do I have to find someone?—

 If they know of someone, great.

Which opens up more negotiations. And of course adds to the scheduling.

 

After all of this, the training begins. The one training (the Master) decides when I’m good enough to leave the nest. Depending on frequency of the training, it could be anywhere form a month to six months again the Master calls the shot. And sometimes the person you’re practicing on.

 

Now with all that said and done. There comes a time were you might come across me and we hit it off. You like being flogged, I like flogging. We plan a day to get together and you show up. You show up on time and well groomed. Thanks, but you also show up empty handed. Why? Because you expect that I would have floggers.

And I do, along with spending time and energy learning how to flog. I also spent money buying that which I like. Floggers go for $100.00 to $150.00 all the way to $200.00 depending on what you like and who you purchase from.

 

So the next time you’re talking with someone about what you like, and they say I love doing that too. Remember they have invested in themselves, time energy and money. and you happen to be getting some of the benefits of their investment.

 

So on your part be engaging, flirt, moan groan have a hard on anything, to let the person know you’re enjoying yourself and help them enjoy it as well. After all you just lying there after showing up empty handed.

 

 

 

 

So, yeah we’re good.

 Until next time Perverts-Make it work-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

      

About A Profile

I am a Sadist by nature, A Top during casual play and a Master all the time. Some may believe that a Sadist like myself hates men. This is not true; some of my good friends are Sadist and are in loving, caring relationships. I enjoy activities, which are like a dance. One, which involves Pain, Passion and Pleasure. I have a very strong will and a strange sense of humor. I grew up watching the women in my family rule. Doing a dance of their own, that many witnessed but very few knew how. These were my first lessons in Female Dominance. It takes a special kind of individual to be with me, one should be a true to them selves. Whether a novice, masochist or submissive. Novice should be willing to be honest about where they are at and where they are willing to go. Submissive should come willing to submit. I am a Lady and have no desire to wrestle your submission from you. I do not wrestle, well maybe a little. To be apart of my world I require one to be healthy physically, mentally and spiritually, to a large degree. This means if you are trying to work through some erotic slavery issues and want to grovel at a Black Woman’s feet and be called names, you will be disappointed. I have had the opportunity to learn some things from some great people. I’ve also had the opportunity to teach some of my skill. I have been told that my face always looks like I am up to mischief. I also like reading, movies and art or just a nice night of hanging out. I’m hoping to meet people who have a sense of humor and are like minded.

 

I have updated my about page, which is the same as the one of fetlife. But for the life of me I can’t understand why any one would want to contact me without reading something about me. Granted a few paragraphs about me does not tell anyone all there is but it does touch on some things that I feel are important enough for someone to know.

So imagine my surprise when contacted from someone who is into humiliation and race play. Did they not see/ read my about/profile?

I write about a lot of things I’m interested in on here, so I guess it’s time I jot down what I’m not into. In time I might change. But if I haven’t by now…well.

I have no desire to:

 See a man in my underwear, or women’s underwear he’s bought for himself or a dress. Sissies are nice from a far. I know a few that show great skill at parties.

I have a view on liquid bonding but I draw the line at scat.

Any kind of age play is out. And as I wrote nothing to do with slavery in the sense of some erotic plantation play.

I love looking at pony play, but it doesn’t interest me to own any kind of animal.

So there it is, not long although I’m sure there are some others I can’t think of them right now.

Until next time Perverts, remember your kink may not be mine but I’m not knocking it.