Folsom

So since I’ve been talking about leather pride night and Folsom, I should give an update.

Well first of I never made it to splash, and thank goodness I live in New York. I’ll just say that sitting in the emergency room at St.Vincent’s no one bats an eye at what you’re wearing. Got to love this city, don’t worry I was fine but my escort for the evening was well…

 

I did go to Folsom rain or shine. I hadn’t been to Folsom since 2001 and I found that when I got there I had missed it. I hung out at Lady Sabrina’s table (My Lady’s toys) right next to The Imperial Court table, interesting to say the lest. I met up with some old friends and met some new ones. Goddess Roz has got the support to start a chapter of ONXY Pearls, and I got to meet the Brothers of ONXY.

Something that I found and have been noticing since my so call “return” to the scene is that some who I get introduced to say, oh you’re Raven. I’m still processing how that makes me feel. To know that in some way I have a reputation as it were, to be introduced and have someone’s eye get wide while shaking your hand is a bit well… like I said I don’t know how that makes me feel.

 

Until Next Time Perverts. Thank God a house didn’t fall out of the sky.

 

 

 

The In Crowd

I received an email in which the mailer stated that I was part of the in crowd.

I never think of myself as being apart of any crowd especially the in crown and I told him so. He went on to explain that I was since I’m a part of TES and I wrote that I was going to LPN and Folsom East this weekend. I am in the process of putting together a caning demo for the dominant women’s submissive men’s group. If this means I’m part of the in crowd I’m fucked. I asked since he lives in NY if he wanted to hang out this weekend with me be apart of the in crowd, but got no reply. This seems to be a pattern with some guys. They wax on about not being about to find a femdom, about not being able to even find a friend in the scene. Yet when it comes down to really being a part of something, they either don’t have the guts to admit its all about the bed room kink or about some fantasy. For me it’s all about the power exchange in and out of the bedroom. It always has been and I’m clear about this, no shame, no bait and switch, what you see is what you get, no game playing.

 

And if indeed I’m part of the in crowd, how is it that, like most femdoms

seeking a sub/slave the pickings are soooo slim. The 100 men to 5 women

or what ever the ratio is seems not to take into account the quality of those

100 men. I see why most of the women I knew in the 90’s have taken to leaving

the scene all together; how they do it is beyond me.

But I’m really beginning to understand it.

 

I could be wrong.

 

Until next time Perverts