Part 1 of a post that probably has nothing to do with post 2,but does have to do with the Service post

My last post got me thinking about a conversation I had with some ladies at the circle. We were discussing some things we wanted to learn and some things we have learned. One sister wanted to learn how to flog with both hands. It may sound real simple, but there is a bit of art to it. so, we started talking about the different ways it can be done. And trying to brain storm when something like this can be taught. In the middle of the conversation someone said, “yeah I was canning this guy and he kept saying your so good at this.” She said she was a bit insulted, and we all could agree.

 

Why?

 

Here’s the thing.

 

It can be looked at this way. A woman is in labor, the doctor instructs her to push, the baby is delivered then, what is called the afterbirth is extracted. That’s it, there’s no manual that comes out, no cliff notes. Just the baby, you’re on your own. You may drag your ass to Barnes and Noble to get a book written by some guy named Dr. Spock, but your best bet if you’re lucky is get with some women who have experience.

 

Back to main point.

 

Learning different skills take time, energy and willingness. You also have to find someone who has the time, energy and willingness to teach you.

This is where my last post comes to into play. It takes a lot of work and sometimes money.

 

Let’s do aVH1 behind the music with the group TLC, the episode when left eye breaks their money down and how at the end they had to file for bankruptcy.

 

First I have to put in the work to find someone I want to learn [add skill here]. That takes time.

 

So I find someone.

 

Then negotiations begins:

 

Am I going to have to pay to learn?

Where will the [add skill here] be taught? They call the shots with this.

I may have to put in some travel time. I can assure any one who wants to learn a skill I’ve never learned anything in a dark ass dungeon.

Which begs the question, will our schedules allow for the training. Again, they call they shots.

 

Some other things to think about.

 

If I have someone not a problem, but if I don’t, do they know someone?

–if I don’t have anyone this cause a problem. If they have someone, are they willing to let me practice on their property?—

–if they don’t have anyone, are they willing to find a person that’s willing? Or do I have to find someone?—

 If they know of someone, great.

Which opens up more negotiations. And of course adds to the scheduling.

 

After all of this, the training begins. The one training (the Master) decides when I’m good enough to leave the nest. Depending on frequency of the training, it could be anywhere form a month to six months again the Master calls the shot. And sometimes the person you’re practicing on.

 

Now with all that said and done. There comes a time were you might come across me and we hit it off. You like being flogged, I like flogging. We plan a day to get together and you show up. You show up on time and well groomed. Thanks, but you also show up empty handed. Why? Because you expect that I would have floggers.

And I do, along with spending time and energy learning how to flog. I also spent money buying that which I like. Floggers go for $100.00 to $150.00 all the way to $200.00 depending on what you like and who you purchase from.

 

So the next time you’re talking with someone about what you like, and they say I love doing that too. Remember they have invested in themselves, time energy and money. and you happen to be getting some of the benefits of their investment.

 

So on your part be engaging, flirt, moan groan have a hard on anything, to let the person know you’re enjoying yourself and help them enjoy it as well. After all you just lying there after showing up empty handed.

 

 

 

 

So, yeah we’re good.

 Until next time Perverts-Make it work-

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

      

The smell of submission

At a training today I had the pleasure of doing what I like to do best. Flirt. As anyone who watches television knows commercial would have us all believe that high speed intert net is a breeze.Well as I sat in the class, my computer would not submit.What’s a girl to do? Since the class was about blogs and blogging in general, I found out that out of the 20 staff there the instructor and myself were the only ones who knew how to spell blog.

So, as not to have the boy run around I volonteered to help. Not that it would not have been fun watching him. run around.

Me: You help the staff at the front of the room and I’ll help at the back.

Him: cool, thanks for the help. I’m not that familiar with wordpress, but I’ve been feeling my way around.

Me: Well, just let me know if you need me to help you feel around?

Him: (little smile)

A couple of times, he came to the back of the room to check on us.

Me: Hey, what are you doing back here? We got this covered, right guys? I asked the gentleman I was helping. If you come back here again, I’ll be forced to drag you around the room by your hair.

Him: I think I’ll stay on my side of the room.(again the little smile)

The guys teased him a bit, “you better listen to her.”

The rest of the time he stayed at the front of the room and only came to the row where he couldn’t cross, just looking at me. I would tease, him. ”You want me to grab you by the hair? Come on back here.”  I’d give him the look and he would touch his hair. I actually had fun. There was a method to me wanting him to be in the front of the room.

1) If the class became to boring or slow I could just sit in the back and give instruction from a chair. And 2) a girl has to have something tasty to look at.   :)

 

A little joy in this Pervert’s life.

Until next time Perverts