Hey Ya Never Know

Since receiving my Wii, which I might add I’m getting a bit of a work with. I’ve been thinking about balance. The wii works my body, but I also need to work my mind.

The forked tongue would do that. And because all work and no play..well you know the rest,

Some great female erotica like the Melinoe Project would be a great read as well.

I didn’t really ask for the wii but got it. So, a gal never knows.

Until next time Perverts

A Pussy On The Prowl

 

 

I spend my Sunday cleaning the house, replying to a few emails and cooking. I did get some reading in of a few blogs post over at Kinky Sex Links, that I’m loving. As well as watching the movie, The Jane Austin Book Club. Who doesn’t love Jane Austin?  I also had a wonderful conversation with a great woman, which is for another post. I started to think about a few things:

1) the women I grew up around, who I love and respect. I don’t think they would consider themselves as dominant women. But they always ran our little world and always had the last say.

2) The imagines from my childhood might have something to do with the way I turned out in life. I was always a bit of a tomboy, still am to a degree. I remember my Grandmother saying that I would never have a boy friend if I kept “beating up” the boys.  Still do like beating them up.

And

3) I think I need a houseboy. No I know I need a houseboy. I’d get so much more done if I had one. Any takers, suggestions?

If only I could channel that beautiful and gifted Blactress Ms. Ertha Kitt 

Oh, well the hunt continues…

 

 Until next time Perverts

2 -4- 1 Monday

I had a great week of sorts. I wanted to go to TES to see Goddess Roz do tit torture,(love anything dealing with torture) but could not find the strength to go. I did how ever get to the dominate women’s submissive men’s group for cock and ball torture. (did I say I love anything dealing with torture?)

Going back to TES I have to admit brought back some feelings, some of which I’ve already wrote about or not. But I forged on, found the new place, paid my $8.00 and found a seat.  As I looked around I saw some familiar faces. Faces that have been in my home played in my dungeon, etc, but they didn’t recognize me, which for some reason was I was cool with on some level.

I was however looking forward to seeing Lady Sabrina. Needless to say, just before the class was to begin, she spotted me. She stood up pointed in my direction and strutted on true Lady Sabrina form across the room. It was good to see her and I was ordered not to leave before we got a chance to talk. The demo was really good and very informative, which is one of the things I love about TES, you can learn if you take the time, put ego to the side (admit you don’t know something) and get to a demo and ask questions. After the circle Lady Sabrina and I was talking and she was introducing me to some people.

What I found interesting was that people were saying “you’re Lady Raven? I’ve heard so much about you.” I was surprised that anyone would have even heard of me and my exploits. But then I should have known, having the honor and pleasure of knowing, learning and generally hanging out with Mistress Blair, Sir C, Lady Sabrina, Mis. Ivy, and Mistress Katlin. These women are amazing and very giving of their time, and it has been an honor to have gotten to know them.That being said, I was told by a youngling, from the mouth of babes moment) like the women before me (those women mentioned above) I had something to offer and I should make an attempt to attend TES. Or at the very least sit in a seat, what would I have to loose? 

OMG a bonus  

Last Friday the one night extravaganza crew went to Floyd’s out in Brooklyn (yes Brooklyn) had a couple of drinks. And some food from the chip shop which is always great. We made plans to go bowling the following Friday. So as usual with these outings word got out and our merry band of five turned into seven. Bowling at the Harlem lanes is always an adventure.

While waiting for our drinks at the bar the girl with the plunging neck line asked if I was old enough to drink. Her attempt at being funny, in front of the men who were seated, which neither they nor I found funny but I understand she’s working for tips. I asked, “Young lady is your shirt’s neck line so low because you’re still wearing your training bra?” Which we found funny, but she didn’t. I got my drinks, she got no tip. Saturday I knew I would pay for bowling; I’m no spring chicken and have seen plenty of springs come and go.     

While lying in bed, I realized that since the New Year I’ve been avoiding dealing with not having what I thought I would have with someone. My friends those that I do call my friends have done their best to help keep my chin up. And I do appreciate it, they show that they care. But I have to deal with the feelings of lose. I may desire one thing but may not find that other person who desires it as well.    

I have kept to what I wrote about earlier. I have planed an art project and work on it every day. Since I haven’t found a tai chi class as of yet I’ve rented some tai chi DVDs and I’m still looking into adobe classes. Today January 21, 2008. I have made a decision to stay home work on some art, and chill, I took a nice sweet bath (recipe below) listened to some music and just chilled. No running around, no answering the phone. Just chilling and getting some well needed rest before the work week begins yet again. 

Until next time perverts 

sweet bath- 

4 cups of orange juice or any orange juice mix(store bought)

4 oranges cut into fours  1 bottle of your favorite champagne

1 large cup of honeyA splash of your favorite purfume/oil

4 scented candles 

In a large pot mix the orange juice saving half a cup for later

Squeeze the juice from three  of the oranges saving one orange for later

Add four glasses of champagne

Add the honey 

Add purfume/oil

 Run a bath, add the mixture,light the candles and have a glass of champagne and orange juice, while eatting your orange listen to music and relaxing.

keep it sweet perverts