As if this week was not the beginning of the holiday from hell Christmas. It was also the week I had two meetings at TES, which wasn’t bad, if only I had gotten to bed before midnight only having to get up and go to work the next morning. And contrary to popular belief I do not have a legion of slaves at my bidding. If I did I would have had my laundry done, my apartment cleaned and food shopping completed, as well as having a home cooked meal and a cooked meal for lunch the next day to take to work. But alas, none of that is so, but I digress.
This week I went to hear Darrell speak on compare and contrast BDSM v.s Swinging. The group was small, so we sat around very informal and discussed the difference between the two and the how’s and what’s to expect at different parties. What I found interesting was that everyone acts like the internet is the peoples savior, when in reality at least for me, its been a curse. Not all deviance is alike. The internet has brought together communities that have different expectations. I will not go into them here you can guess what they are? You can can’t you? Overall it was a nice discussion, even if it was mostly about helping a swinger find others like himself. And it was good to see Darrell.
The very, I mean very next day I co-hosted the dominant women’s submissive men’s groups holiday party. Lady Sabrina did most of the work, I just came in and got fussed at by Lady Sabrina for talking. It was a lot of fun, I was socializing and chatting up folks. Then I entered the deck the ball contest, and believe it or not, I lost, lost I say, curses. Actually the conversation I was having while thinking how I wanted to deck my balls was the best part for me. I had to lose since I was the co-host and Miss Manners would think it bad manners if the host won at their won party. I had several great conversations with some of the gentlemen that were there. It kinda makes me think there is some hope in the scene. Kinda, then I had to got to work early the next day. To say I was dragging ass is an under statement.
