Mind fuck Tuesday was great and fun was had by all.
I have to admit that I do a lot of bitching, so in the spirit of being consistent here’s some more. I read somewhere about a young lady asking a question. Her question was this and I’m paraphrasing here. She’s been a slave in a relationship with my Dom for two years. They don’t go out to dungeons and they’re not part of the public scene. He says they don’t need other people, but when she suggest that it might be good for her to meet other slaves to better serve him he disagrees. And will give her books to read.
I have several problems with this, and the suggestions that were given to her were great and hopefully helpful to her. Know one is there and knows what goes on in her relationship and are basing their answers on what she has said.
But it brings up a good point, one that was brought up on Friday in my conversations.
Just like those bottoms/slave/submissive types. The other side of the coin are those want to be Tops/Domme/Doms/ Masters. The folks who slap an honorific on their names and presto, super whatever. Sometimes, these people are just predators, and sometimes they are just clueless. I’d like to believe they are just clueless, because clueless can get a clue on the low. But the predators are dangerous. They are dangerous if they are inclined to swing anything made of leather and they are dangerous when they isolate, someone who may not be strong enough to stand up for them selves. In the case of the young lady who asked the question (albeit the World Wide Web) she gets props for questioning. What she does after getting some answers is up to her. There plenty folks out there that prey on bottoms/slaves/submissives, whether it’s spiritual, mental or financial it’s all wrong. They need to be destroyed, it’s harsh I know but they make it bad for the ones out there that are good. On both sides of the whip. This isn’t something that is exclusive to the BD/SM, D/s, M/s world it in the world at large.
Maybe I’m just being my usual Aquarian self and I want to believe that people are honorable, but they aren’t. I know.
On a side note I saw David at TES last night, it was good seeing him. We have both been away for some years and he is making his way back in the scene. Like me he’s gone through some disappointments and heart aches. And like me he can’t stay away for long. There are places that are just for people like us, sad but true. It was good talking with him even if for just a while. When I was leaving I turned to say something and saw him looking at my ass.
Sweet! I thought my ass had lost its appeal.
Until next time Perverts, live with honor. It sucks but, can you live with yourself if you didn’t?
