Try It You Might Like It

So, I’ve added a socialvibe badge on my blog. I think it might be something good, so I’m gonna try it I might like it you should too. I’ll keep you posted.

4TH

So it’s the fourth of July. And in keeping with all the fantasy shit that’s in most places on the internet. My first thought of the moring was me wishing I could tie some one over a bench in the park, stick a firecracker in thier ass, and light it.

Folsom East

I went to FolsomEast this past weekend with Justin, and as usual it was an adventure. We hung out the night before (see post below) so you know oh girl was whipped. After having coffee and some breakfast we headed downtown. 

I have to say that my neighbors if they didn’t think I was strange before they do now. In my defense I have to say if they were not sitting blocking the door in front of the building they would not have the sight of a big ass leather boy (yes dressed in full leather) on a bright Sunday morning/afternoon. We made our way pass the neighbors up the hill pass the church, then up another hill pass the nunnery (yes nunnery) to the train.

I’m not saying people in the Bronx don’t know what leather is or looks like but it’s not something you see everyday walking to the train. It wasn’t like he was wearing chaps with the back out, but it was funny looking at people trying not to look.

So we made it to 28^th and 10^th, Brother Emery was working the entrance and we were with our people. It was a nice day although rain was forecasted, I got to catch up with a few folks and saw Richard who has a fabulous store that was reviewed by vogue. Mostly everyone was in the eagle, so there were not many people on the street. And after making the rounds at ONXY Men’s table (I love my brothers) and talked with Doc a bit, we made our way to MAsT Metro, TES, LSM, and NYLW table.

The best part was watching Sahara Pallin swing a hammer and ring the bell for charity; I even believe he/she was sporting a baby in a blanket. Ha!

Being tiered I thought I might need to eat so we left and went to get something to eat. Which only made me feel worst and I headed home, while the leather boy headed to Rawhide, the oldest leather bar in NY.

 

So although it was not as adventurous as the nights before I did enjoy myself. Oh and I got a great fatigue corset from Lady Sabrina, can’t wait to wear it.

The Band Still Plays On

At the Switch party which was at paddles in a private area the women were in all their glory. The look on Gina’s face was priceless. Got to keep a gal guessing by keeping her on her toes, which would have been great if I could have tied her up. I watched some nice scenes had a few conversations which were enjoyable. But I want to beet some ass. Here’s the thing about this party, although it was my first time there I couldn’t figure out who was who. It was the transgender thing that kept me off balance the whole evening. I didn’t know who the tops were and who the bottoms were. The two and a half conversations I had with women they implied I’d do them then they’d do me. Huh??  

Now I’m not getting on my back in the day soap box, but I flag on the left meaning top. Tops are tops, bottoms are bottoms dykes and femms are well, dykes and femms. I’m not the lipstick wearing kinda gal. So to say I was confessed would be a big understatement. I guess when I told a friend of mine once I’m a simple woman it was really true. I like orange juice I don’t want it mixed with another kind of juice. I like my coffee to be coffee. With people I guess I’m the same I like women, I’m not attracted to a women who are thuggish in thier manner or dress. If I wanted to date a guy I would.I guess here I should say I like dating guys as well; and I don’t go for guys who are into cross dressing.

But I think I digressed

The party was nice and Ms. Petal I’m sure will drag me to another one, just to make sure we or rather I’m into it. I can say that Gina was the only one who was direct in her approach to me. “I’d really like for you to fuck me up.” she said. Oh, and how I would love to fuck ….her up.    

 After the party we met up at the diner we seem to frequent (they should reserve us a table we’re there so much) with Bensonboy, had something to eat then headed back over the bar for a night cap. Or better yet a morning cap since it was well after midnight. Then a cab uptown and sleep we had Folsom east on Sunday to go to.

Next up Folsom East stay tuned

And the Band Plays On

I have a few things to post about not in any particular order. I’ve been tardy in not writing much it being pride month and all.

 

FolsomEast here in New York fucking City. 

The Switch party at paddles, which, I’m not sure if the women there are switches or just like to be hit with a switch?

 And the spanking demo with Lady Sabrina hosted by LSM at the center

 Ofcourse all of this took place between the un-holy trinity as I like to call my outings with Bensonboy   http://fetlife.com/users/19268 (you have to be a fetlife member to see read about him)   and Ms. Petal   http://fetlife.com/users/38540

 It’s never a dull moment. We all met at out home bar Rawhide and had a few drinks before Ms. Petal and I headed over to the center to see the demo. Bensonboy went to the Eagle to see the leather contest that was taking place there.

Arriving at the center I knew there might be a problem since I have the hots for one of the young ladies that work the front desk. Actually I wouldn’t call it the hots, she sassy and I like that in a woman. Thank the Goddess there was not an incident. Ms. Petal threatened to blow up my spot, It was my luck she was at the desk and gave me some lip as we pasted by. She really needs a spanking and I’m not into spanking. I was only going to the demo to support Lady Sabrina and also maybe find out what all the hoopla was about.

I pushed pass the whole LSM thing (which I will not get into now). When we got to the room which was packed I could see Lady Sabrina had all of her devilish instruments laid out. I thought we might have missed the spanking/hitting part. We found a seat in the back and there was Gina and I believe her partner. Gina runs the switch party which we were going to after the demo. I have the hots for her as well but I’m not about to trespass. I don’t do that. Respect. Of course through out the demo Ms. Petal and I egged Lady Sabrina to hit precious harder and to use the rubber bands on her.

So what did I learn from the demo? I learned that the young lady at the front desk needs a discipline spanking, just to keep her in line. I also learned that spanking can be apart of role play, or a warm up for other things to come. There are the purists who only do spanking and they take it very serious. I’m not knocking it, I own several different canes but only use rattan. Go figure. But the most exciting thing that happened was what came after. All these women were approaching me asking for my email and being all flirty. Who knew this old gal still got it in her. Or it could just have been since the switch party was a daddy party and I wore my tie and fedora, the gals have daddy issues. Either way what bliss!

Happy Pride

Pride

It’s that time of the year again, yep pride month. I must say that I’m proud all year round this is the time in New York were a gal can have what’s left of fun in this city.

 

Ms. Petal, who missed the fun in the 70’s and 80’s has decided to make me her new best friend and hangout buddy. What does this mean to me you ask?

Well this Saturday after I attend a wedding we’re going to clubfem, never been should be interesting.

The 16^th we’re going to TES there’s going to be a panel on what is leather. The next evening Mistress Nona a wonderful women I have the pleasure knowing and buying some canes from will be doing cbt. Och, yum.

The 19^th Lady Sabrina will be performing the art of sensual spanking at the center and afterwards we’re heading over to Paddles for the Switch party. I love the sound of women being hit.

The 20^th is leather pride night’s fundraiser at splash.

On the 21^st we are going to folsom then hitting the center again for a party given by LSM, which I’m not really interested in, never was. But trying to support my girl, as you can see my dance card is full. Hanging out with Ms. Petal is always fun, and I hope to met some interesting people. If nothing else we’ll hit up a bar and have some gin, who wants come?

Bond

It has been a long time since I was in the company of a man that actually stimulted my mind. Tuesday at TES Mike Bond spoke about doing dominance. I only wish I could have stayed longer.

Here are somethings that I learned that evening.

1. There maybe some hope for me yet to come across a man who is smart and funny. And though outwardly serious may not take himself as such.

2. Some people walk around with the declaration of independence (she would have done great on lets make a deal)

 and

3. That for me there are but so many spoon fulls on safety I can take. 

 

Don’t get me wrong doing the things I enjoy takes some being safe, but recently I’ve been thinking if I even wanted to be a part of the public scene. I did fine all those years before. This discussion did more then get me hot,(and I was hot)  but it made me not want to step too far back. This like most things with me will take alot of thought.

I’ll be thinking about this and will try to put my thoughts together on the notes I wrote during the discussion.

The circle of life

I have been on a lot of what I like to call one cup of coffee dates. I get emails from guys who say we have a lot in common then when we met and start to talk about D/s, well if you’ve been reading this blog you know most times its bait and switch. I went out to meet a guy that I had been talking with for about a week. And he was a no show, he didn’t even have the manners to call and say he wasn’t coming. So there I was on 34^th street and 9^th ave thinking I might as well have some lunch, when low and behold I spot a man looking at me.

I thought I knew him but hey this is New York, I might have seen him on the street a few blocks back. But no, he walked up and my memory was a jarred. I met him a couple of years ago. We exchanged pleasantries and as I was going into the dinner to have lunch I invited him. We had been out a couple of times but nothing became of it, since he was looking for someone younger, which at the time amazed me since we had went out a couple of times, but things got real cool after he found out how old I was. Our conversation was good, we have a lot in common he’s funny and I’m clumsy. It was like we picked up were we left off. And just when I was debating in my head to bring up this fact, he asked if I was seeing anyone? Which I’m not he also went on to say that he was not seeing anyone either. Seems he’s come of age as it were. A few women he had been attractive to expressed that they thought he was a bit old for them. Mind you when I met him I just turned 42 and he was 35.  But now a couple of years later he is now 40 and finding out that the young femdommes of internet porn and fiction is not real life. You would have thought back when he was 35 he would have known that. Just like I knew that although he passed on me one day he would be my age and someone would pass on him because of his age and not because of who he is.

A Women’s Event

 Saturday, May 23, 2009

01:00 PM to 04:00 PM

The LGBT Community Center

208 W. 13th St, New York

Description

Lady Sabrina and Le Cercle des Dommes

Present

An Afternoon of Fellowship and Fun benefitting Master Blair’s Fight for Christopher Fund

A Women’s Event

Master Blair

Founded Le Cercle des Dommes – a support group for Dominant Women. She also helped establish Masters And slaves Together (MAsT) – Metro NYC. She has mentored and presented at TES, Le Cercle des Dommes, Butchmann’s and various events around the country.

Now she needs our help – The court has decided that because of her M/s interests and her involvement in the BDSM community, she is an unfit mother and has taken her son, Christopher, away. Le Cercle des Dommes is hosting an afternoon event as a thank you and a show of support for all Master Blair has done for the community she cares for so well.

__Presenters will include:

Goddess Coko Florentine Flogging

Margaret Davis Traditional OTK Spanking

Doom Maidens Wrestling

Miss Olivia Hart, Drag Queen Extraordinaire will provide entertainment.

Raffles will include a Community membership, toys, t-shirts and more. Refreshments are included with your donation.

This is a pansexual event open to all Women.

Please come out and support someone who has given so much to this community.

It’s Offical

Sunday at the master and slaves together meeting. Someone called me Sir. And it was like someone calling your name and you thinking they are calling someone else.

So it begun and the universe is in on it.

Monday night after work I went to whole foods, and at the register the women ringing up my food commented on my items.“Cod fish, shrimp, herb salad, couscous, chicken broth, eden soy milk. Looks like someone is going to have a lovely diner? If I had a man like you I’d love coming home.”“I told her if she had a man like me, she’d be coming home to a woman. And the shopping and cooking would be done by her.” My groceries came to $43.00, the look of shock on her face, priceless.

 Tuesday after my doctor’s appointment, I stopped in the fossil store to get a wallet. The young guy was helpful showing me a variety of brown and black leather and patchwork wallets which were nice.  He said “They maybe a little to masculine?” But I joked that the man in me was loving them. The woman at the register thought that I might like something a little bit less masculine but still had what I was looking for and showed me on with out the patchwork. Which were even nicer and a bit pricier. Then she did what every girl learns to do at some point in her life. She put her hand to the middle of her throat were the collar bone separates. Yep it made me look at her cleavage. In between us flirting I pulled a trick myself, so while talking about the bags I mentioned that “with her store discount she must have all of them? And if I had a discount I’d buy the wallet.” “well,” she said even though we kinda just met, I think I can do a little something for you.” and she did, more then she knew. I go to flirt with a guy and a gal and best of all a discount.

 What more could this Sir ask for?

 But then the week isn’t over